ashes to ashes
this is not self help
it's a self resurrection
are you ready to
bury the self sacrificing
strong girl
enter your
hottest self era
& let your dark femme lead
to feel sexy as hell
with high af standards
INTRODUCING
RIP Former Self
instant access workshop
-the ceremonial death of the version of you that over works, over gives, over functions or betrays herself
+ the reclamation & rebirth of the REAL you.
We are all gathered here today
to say goodbye to…your former self🪦
May she rest in peace
She died doing what she loved:
being everything to everyone while never leaning on anyone, asking for help or putting her own self first
She spent her days offering to plan, organize and host even though her brain body and wallet are feeling tapped TF out and being everyone’s unpaid therapist while quietly drowning in her own bathtub of resentment
Her passing will be commemorated by just a single moment of silence 🤫
because shes so f*cking busy she has no time for her !!!
She will not be missed.
Why I am your
GO TO GUIDE
Well first I am the scorpio death & rebirth QUEEN
I have lived 100 lives ok.
I was the "mature for her age" parentified eldest daughter that became the protector & peace maker in my childhood home. Couple that w some abandonment wounds and high functioning high performance drive and I became chained to be identity of being the strong resilient one.
- I NEVER wanted to be seen as weak or as a victim so I became the martyr instead (spoiler alert the martyr is also a victim)
- I was the strong one and became chained to my identity of "I can do it all" self sacrifice.
- I did so much therapy and personal development "work" I became an expert at intellectualizing but still self abandoned under the guise of maturity and emotional intelligence.
I had to break up with my identity as the saviour, stop being addicted to being seen as "perfect" and end my tendency to shrink myself to make others feel more comfortable. It was HARD f*cking work - and it begins, with getting sick of your own sh*t and then being brave enough to move through the death & rebirth portal of your former self.
On the other side of what feels like your "villain era" (which is mostly just setting boundaries lol) are actual authentic, reciprocal relationships, being chosen, cherished, worshipped & adored by those around you, experiences that meet & exceed your standards, and new layers to your actual authentic self.
In this workshop I will show you how to move out of your wounded feminine or hyper masculine into your POWER to become the main character (whos sometimes a cunt) of your own life.
I'm finally able to just stand firm knowing my value
____ J
he circled back like you said I didn't even reply and for once didn't feel anxious or guilty
____ A
I channeled my inner Aymie and just asked for what I want it felt scary and that after I felt SO RELIEVED
____ S
our former self funeral
lay her to rest
your next level self awaits
the spookiest thing is staying the same
